Brad's Virtual Desk

Last week, WB Reed dropped a new version of the Minnesota Masonic Histories and Mysteries Podcast : 18:53 Working Tools Series reading an article titled, “Carriers of the Flame.”

Check it out at:

https://mnmasoniccharities.org/minnesota-masonic-histories- mysteries-podcast

Additionally, I recently spoke with my friend RWB Chad Kopenski from Ohio, who shared his article “Ultimately…I am.”  I have included it below for your consideration. Thank you to Chad for sharing it, and I hope you enjoy it.

The universe often brings us timely messages, and I find these works very complementary to each other. I encourage you to consider both and discuss in your lodges. … And as we enter the holiday season, I hope you take some time for reflection and enjoy your family. I look forward to talking with you more soon, and until then … Travel well my Brothers.

Fraternally, Brad

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Ultimately… I am. By Chad Kopenski

Recently I was sitting with a group of Brethren from around the State. In the outside world, they were teachers, nurses, handymen, emergency services, businessmen, fathers, etc.; in the Masonic world, they represented all levels of involvement and experience. Over the course of the evening, as we discussed life inside and outside Lodge, each man uttered some variation of this phrase: ‘Ultimately, I am accountable and responsible.’

Upon later reflection and when unpacked, that phrase is incredibly Masonic.

Responsible: Obliged to do something. For generations, Masons have been the “men of note” in their communities. We are obligated to step up, to act, to do what we say we will do, to do it to the best of our ability, to do what is best and what is right for our Brethren, our Lodge, our widows and orphans, our families, and our communities. We have a duty to ourselves and those around us to put our values into action.

And: In addition to or connected to. Masonry provides the opportunity for Masons to connect with personal and local history, with a multitude of diversely defined communities, with the wisdom of generations past, with the hope and promise of generations next, with the power of Ritual and Tradition; with the assurance provided from Sacred Things through a Brotherhood that spans time and distance. Masonry thrives in connection and dies in isolation.

Accountable: Answerable for personal actions or decisions. As Masons, we hold ourselves to a certain standard; that whatever hypocrisy, deceit, negligence, carelessness, rashness, or wrong may exist in the outside word; that we will make the choice to be honest, prudent, conscientious, charitable, just, and do what’s right. We are definedby our choices: whether or not we choose to speak up; whether or not we choose to act; whether or not we are true to our word. We know that we will be answerable for our choices to our Brethren, our loved ones, the Great Architect of the Universe, and ourselves.

Ultimately: Fundamentally or finally. In much of our world, it is easy to pass the buck, throw someone else under the bus, deflect attention, hide in the crowd, or escape the consequences of our actions. Freemasonry is a diverse global institution; but it all comes down to the choices of the individual Mason. When we hear others talk about the decline of Masonry, how Masonry in our Lodge or community is under attack, how this technology or this generation or this Grand Lodge requirement is to blame; when we hear others cry “Someone needs to do something about the health of Masonry in this Lodge! Someone needs to do something about this issue in our community! Who’s going to do something about this?” This is where the individual Mason steps forward and says:

I am.

A version of this appeared in the Fall 2017 The Ohio Beacon, a quarterly joint publication of The Ohio Masonic Home and the Grand Lodge of Ohio.

Recently, MWB Bob Davis recommended that I read “The E-Myth” by Michael Gerber. I ended up listening to it on Audible during my journeys to and from Masonic Camp.  Travel time is perfect time to catch up on books via audiobooks.

 Two key lessons from the book really resonated with me:

… To be successful

1. Consistency is essential.
2. Shifting mindset from being an expert in your craft to embracing systems thought is crucial for leadership at scale.

The first lesson focused on consistency, illustrated by an example from a barber shop. The author described three visits: one included excellent service with coffee, another offered just a great haircut, and a third provided an option of wine. While the haircuts were always on point, the unpredictable extra touches led the author to take their business elsewhere. This reaction makes sense—most people value a certain level of consistency, even if changes could be positive. Abrupt shifts can ruin someone’s experience. I remember running across a story once that involved eBay and helps illustrate this point further: when the company changed its traditionally bold yellow background to white overnight, users revolted. As a result, eBay had to revert and transition the color slowly, shifting from yellow to white in small steps over a year.  The users found that change acceptable.  

There is an important lesson here about our work: consistency is important so that members know what to expect.  This is why our lessons, symbolism, and values are so important to keep consistent.

Some time ago, RWB Shawn Carrick shared with me an article he penned on attributes of a healthy lodge which also delves into these themes.  I submit it to you below for your consideration.

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Within the esteemed tradition of Freemasonry, lodges serve as the cornerstone for the brotherhood, acting as both a gathering place and a platform for personal growth and community service.  From my reading of different books and by watching what I see in the different lodges I believe that there are many habits of highly successful lodges, and I will list just seven habits that I believe will lead to a lodge becoming a highly successful lodge. 

 

The first habit of successful lodges is a foundation built on effective and strong leadership. This means not only having a capable Master at the helm but also ensuring that all officers are well-prepared and committed to their duties. Effective leaders foster an atmosphere of respect, encourage participation, and promote Masonic values while also adapting to the needs of their members. Effective leaders also need to be able to guide and defuse conflicts between differing points of view and beliefs.

The second habit is frequent and transparent communication which is crucial for the health of a lodge. Successful lodges utilize various platforms—such as newsletters, meetings, and social media—to keep members informed about upcoming events, educational opportunities, and other important announcements. This habit not only keeps everyone in the loop but also strengthens bonds among members by encouraging regular interaction. 

Building on communication leads to the third habit which is education and is at the heart of Freemasonry. A successful lodge offers a variety of educational programs that cater to the interests of its members. This could include lectures on Masonic history, discussions on philosophical topics, or workshops that develop personal skills. By investing in the intellectual growth of its members, a lodge enhances the overall quality of its meetings and the personal development of its freemasons. 

 A fourth habit of a successful lodge is in actively engaging with their local communities, participating in charitable events and providing support to various causes. This engagement is where most Masons can practice skills and teachings obtained through the Lodge that the community will become the beneficiary of. Freemasonry has always emphasized service to others and engagements in the community and reinforces the lodge’s commitment to brotherhood and service, demonstrating the practical application of Masonic principles. 

Beyond the formalities of meetings, the fifth habit of a successful lodge emphasizes the importance of fellowship. Organizing social events, such as family gatherings, community barbeques, or even retreats, helps strengthen the bonds among members. This sense of camaraderie improves attendance and enhances loyalty, fostering a more connected lodge environment. 

The sixth habit is that a thriving lodge continuously seeks to grow its membership through outreach and retention strategies. This involves not just inviting new members but also ensuring that existing members feel engaged and valued. Successful lodges often implement mentorship programs that pair new members with seasoned brethren, facilitating a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere. 

The seventh and last habit to be discussed here is successful lodges maintain a commitment to the rich rituals and traditions of Freemasonry. The practice of these rituals is not just about performing them correctly; it’s about understanding their significance and embodying their teachings. There are many lessons that our rituals teach for each member to reflect on in their personal lives. This is a lifelong journey because over time, you may suddenly find that you are in the correct frame of mind, listening to the ritual from a specific person who has the right reflections and intonations in his voice that suddenly you find is pertinent to you. We must always remember that this reverence for ritual enhances the spiritual and moral fabric of the lodge, making the experience profound and impactful for all members. 

These seven habits are integral for the success of any Masonic lodge, particularly those aligned with values. By nurturing strong leadership, maintaining clear communication, and focusing on education and community engagement, lodges can not only survive but flourish, ensuring a bright future for all members involved. 

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Both the E-Myth and RWB Shawn’s reflections teach important lessons that are complementary to one another.  As we enter the season of Thanksgiving and the holidays, remember to look around and be grateful for how your family and Brethren were put in your path by the Grand Architect to help you grow.  It brings me peace to know that I am surrounded by so many great men with big hearts dedicated to the advancement of our beautiful fraternity.

Until then, travel well my Brothers.

After a fairly crazy week, it was a welcomed escape to hit the road and retreat to the woods for a couple of days. It also seemed like a fitting bookend to a season I started by riding through this area to get to the International Peace Garden for a Masonic gathering a few months previous. This time, it was the Masonic Camp which was the draw, and I was honored to take part of it for a second year. Though I thought I was prepared for the event, unexpected things came up and I had to rush out Friday afternoon for Ehrhard, MN. Thanks to Amanda’s help and my earlier organization, I managed to pull it off.

I arrived around 5:30 and was happy to see my Brothers at Moccasin Valley Camp. We unloaded grab bags that I helped to assemble and chatted with others as we handed out their name badges. After a bit of discussion, I set back out to my truck to assemble ham gear complete with an antenna that I had not yet tested. In 5 minutes, I was listening to 40 meters, and a few Brothers came up to comment or check out the mobile HF station. Dang, I love it when a plan comes together.

After dinner, RWB Chuck Brust presented on his recent pilgrimage in Portugal and Spain and shared some very important lessons that tie back into Masonry. I found myself full of wonder as I looked through his pictures and heard his stories. I can relate to the deep meaning one finds when they are extremely present in the moment, and especially in the

surroundings of deeply beautiful scenery and traveling with someone that is extremely important to you. During the talk, we heard a loud meowing from outside, and very quickly made a new local friend who stayed with us throughout the weekend. We did our duty and spoiled our furry friend with offerings of food and drink. As we left, we verified that it was a stray but had been getting care on one of the local farms.

Next we headed to the Northwest Conference in Moorhead where we were met with much hospitality and friendly faces. It was a good experience to hear the presentations on leadership and get a chance to compare notes with our Northwest Masonic family including the OES and the Job’s Daughters. Collectively, we had a great conversation with Kathy Quick about growing our networks, and the contributions of our Masonic bodies. WB Steve Stobbs honored me by asking me to be an impromptu speaker, and I enjoyed talking about Covey’s first 3 habits – something that I hope will earn me additional visits in the Northwest.

As we returned to camp, I presented on the Knights of the Golden Circle and the factors that led to the civil war. Brother Evan Schroder discussed the Tria Prima and the Lesser Lights. It was a fascinating talk reflecting on Hermeticism and Alchemy. After the talks, we

did a Magic the Gathering draft and had a blast playing collectible cards – a recharge I desperately needed.

During the closing session, we reviewed and reflected on “The Egg” by Andy Weir, which led into a discussion of current developments within our lodges. As I departed for Rochester, two thoughts remained with me: first, I appreciated the opportunity to participate for a second consecutive year and to engage in a productive weekend of learning; second, I felt fortunate to be among dedicated members of this fraternity and to have the chance to connect with even

more Brothers. I would like to express my gratitude to Evan, Chris, and Peter for their commitment and leadership in ensuring the continued success of the Masonic Camp in 2025. (Special thanks to Brother Evan Schroeder for the photos).

My introduction to Masonry occurred at my grandfather’s funeral. I recall a group of men entering in procession with a wreath in the shape of a square and compass. One man approached me and asked, “Are you a traveler?” In between tears, I responded by mentioning that I had recently returned from a business trip to Australia.  He smiled, nodded, shared his sympathy for my loss, and moved on.   

Later, I noticed a plaque belonging to my grandfather with the question, “What is a Mason?” It continued with an attempt at a symbolic explanation that resonated with me.  I read this plaque numerous times, especially during the period when I was awaiting the acceptance of my petition. During this time, I was anxious to be admitted and concerned that unforeseen circumstances might prevent me from joining others in this laudable pursuit.  I wondered if I would be good enough.  It took some time to get through the process, and when I did – I felt like I accomplished something truly special.

Since then, I’ve faced many questions about my motives, beliefs, trust, and values.  Each question brought with it new lessons.  As I became involved in more appendant bodies, challenges, lessons, and insights grew.  After a few years, I thought I understood and appreciated everything Masonry offered and quickly advanced into leadership roles and participated in multiple degrees with the Scottish Rite, Shrine, and Eastern Star. I learned the rituals and believed I grasped their meaning – after all, I memorized the work.  I was seeking answers instead of asking important questions.

As the world circles our sun, I find myself wondering if I had an appreciation of the true solemnity of the journey I would take over the next 20 years and beyond.  I wonder if I would have appreciated what it felt like to shed a tear or to lose sleep in the fear of letting a Brother down?  Did I understand the type of love that allowed myself to be misunderstood in the pursuit of a greater good and doing what is right?  Would I have listened carefully enough to promote understanding and prevent miscommunication or the need for judgement?  Did I understand Brotherly love?

Did I know what it meant to walk the line, stare into the abyss, and inspire hope in others despite my own fears?  Would I have emptied my wallet to help someone in need, or chosen to sacrifice so that another could eat?  Would I practice faith in the face of uncertainty?  Did I know what it was like to hold a man’s hand as he was dying or to hold the knowledge that I was the last person he’d speak to?

I wonder if I could comprehend the blessing in knowing who would preside over my funeral and that one day, death would catch up with me too.  Could I have lived life to its fullest without this knowledge and with the continuation of taking the passage of time for granted?

Would I have known the joy of helping others and expecting nothing in return or the importance of being measured in my words, trustworthy, and being there for people who needed me most?  Was I capable of yielding the spotlight to those who needed it more, or were more deserving and being happy for them?  Did I have the capacity for these things, or was I more likely to be the type of person to leave the important work to someone else because they would pick up the slack?

I have a long way to go on my journey, but what I’ve witnessed and learned in my past 20 years as a Mason has been life changing.  The transformation takes time, and my Masonic guides have shown me this honorable path that humbles me every day.  While we may find ourselves consumed by fear, unimportant distractions, or politics of the day, many of the important things I’ve observed are outlined above – including self-understanding and the support system Masonry is intended to provide.  This is what I believe it means to be a Mason, and you are a carrier of this flame.  This is the treasure I have found, and the world desperately needs it now.

Masonry possesses many good questions and answers.  Looking back, “What is a Mason?” is indeed a good question, but perhaps the more important one to reflect on is, “How do you know yourself to be one?”

(May 2025)
Summer is upon us, and with it the many activities that spin up along with it.  Soon it will be time for family vacations, camping, fishing, and for me:  a combination of all the above along with some two wheeled adventures.  It is my belief that all of this serves as a reminder of what it means to live, and why that is important.  As MWB Bob Davis points out, “Everything we do is important”.

This time of year, I also look forward to the Midwest Conference on Masonic Education (more at http://mcme1949.org).  We had an excellent turnout in Minnesota last year, and it was no different in this year’s location:  Indianapolis, Indiana. 

I was excited to hear that there would be multiple people joining from our jurisdiction – including two of my predecessors:  WB Mark Robbins and WB Andy Niemeyer.  On the road trip, I especially enjoyed the company of my good friend and Brother Russell Winbush who joined me cutting across four states and spending time studying ritual, listening to audiobooks, reflecting on quantum physics, discussing manifestation, and comparing notes about life goals in general.  We arrived ½ a day early and that afforded us extra time to walk around downtown Indianapolis and enjoy the beautiful architecture coexisting with modern sights:

You may recognize the columns in the war memorial, symbolism from the entrance of the Scottish Rite Castle, and well … the Shriner’s Temple was the biggest (possibly most beautiful) I had ever seen.  If you’d like additional views and descriptions, please visit my virtual desk – I will share them there:  http://bythecompass.org.  Included are artifacts from Dave Thomas of Wendy’s fame, and a rare publication that has a Brother’s long spent grocery list written on the back of it.  This represents a rare treasure serving to remind us that despite our station, we are all living the same human experience with similar basic needs.

MCME 2025 was another awesome educational experience and adventure, and it was so good to connect with Freemason educator friends who have given a piece of themselves and continue to make their mark in the fraternity through research, books, podcasts, and creative works.  MWB Tom Hendrickson was also in attendance and captured his thoughts and a wonderful summary in his blog located here:  http://allthingsmasonic.blogspot.com. 

Next year, MCME will be held in Omaha, Nebraska.  Keep an eye out for the announcement on their website, and I sincerely hope you will consider joining us – especially if you are looking for more inspiration and information about Masonic education. 

Soon I would be headed through Indianapolis once again:  this time targeting Dayton, OH for Dayton Hamvention 2025 (https://hamvention.org). 

On to Dayton, Ohio

During my brief time back in Minnesota, I was invited by Chad Kopenski (Ohio) to join him for a discussion on the Ohio Lodge of Research Connections video podcast located at: https://www.youtube.com/@OLRConnections (please consider liking and subscribing).  I gladly accepted. 

The evening before my continued travels, Chad and I had a thoughtful conversation.  One topic that he raised was, “Are we using the gifts that we have been given?”  To be honest, I had goosebumps, and it is a question we should all think about and reflect on.  It was good getting to know Chad (another MCME friend) better.  The conversation served as the perfect backdrop to my return trip through Indiana and on my way to Ohio.

Prior to proceeding, it is important to note that on the previous Monday, during our meal, one of the junior officers of Rochester Lodge #21 asked if I had ever read works by Napoleon Hill.   I responded that I had not and took note of the author so that I could listen to his works on my way out to Ohio.  I casually asked which book would be a good one to listen to.  Without hesitation, Bro. Gabe suggested “Outwitting the Devil” – a work which I later discovered was kept from publication until long after Hill’s death.  Interesting …

As I left my driveway and started the book, I was amazed by its synchronicity and how its content aligned with my conversation with Chad and recent events in my life.  Halfway through (and after encountering two Tornado warnings), I excitedly reached out to several Brothers and suggested that the book should be required reading for all new Freemasons because there are so many intriguing points to reflect on.  I safely pulled into Dayton, OH Friday morning at 3:00am having completed the book.  I’m not exaggerating when I tell you that my mind was utterly blown.  If you haven’t read this book, you should.  I will read it again in the coming days.

When my Ohio and Indianapolis friends (many of whom I had met at MCME) saw that I was back in the area, I was immediately greeted with multiple Masonic event invites.  This not only made me feel welcomed, but my ham radio friends took note of the invites too.  It is evidence of who we are and reflects more than simple words.  I recently asserted, “I am blessed to be surrounded by doers.”  Let me double-down on that comment and send Brotherly love to my Brothers wheresoever dispersed.  Our fraternity is special, and this reflects one of the great reasons why.

Dayton, OH was a lot of fun.  My goal was to spend as much time as I could with my Ham Radio mentors, and friends that I had not seen in quite some time.  I could not ride a motorcycle this time, so I took a sketchy Jeep instead.  We enjoyed simple pleasures and laughed.  We took in meals many locals may consider humdrum, but I seek out every time I’m in areas that have them:   Waffle House and Captain D’s. 

It was nice to reset.  On day two, my friend Fant and I traveled to the Neil Armstrong museum on a whim, and we were happy we did.  Inside this treasure are so many stories of hope and human resiliency.  I couldn’t help but smile when I saw the astronomical symbols awaiting us at the entrance near a module exhibit.  Two stood out to me in particular.

The last few weeks have been a tale of two cities – ironically close to each other and separated by a week of return trips.  It was an opportunity to travel, unhook, and enjoy the company of friends and Brothers.  More importantly, it was an opportunity to take in and accept a series of events that reflect exactly what I needed in the moment.  They were added chapters to a never-ending story, and adventure of the heart and of the mind. 

Thank you for walking along with me on this journey and allowing me into yours.   Until our paths next cross, I hope that you too will travel well my Brothers.

Fraternally,
Brad

As a child, I remember watching WWF with my dad on the USA network. It was during the era of Hulk Hogan, Macho Man, Andre the Giant, and Jake the Snake among others. There was also controversy about professional wrestling being fake. Regardless, it provided entertainment and involved significant physical exertion, even if it was primarily for show. The inconvenient truth of staged matches and crazy storylines did not alter the experiences and bonding time that my dad and I shared while watching; in fact, I would say it enhanced it.

Recently, I saw a discussion about the accuracy of the forget-me-not as a symbol of Masonry during World War 2.  It was a good conversation, and one that is not new among Masonic scholars.   For my part, I acknowledged the value of the story and the hope it represents. Jokingly, I mentioned the multiverse theory of quantum physics suggests that in some universe, probabilistically, the story would hold true.  I have a tattoo of a forget-me-not because the story reminds me to do the right thing – even when it is hard.  The forget-me-not inspires me, even if the history of its origin story is flawed.

In my conundrum article, I outlined the polarization present during the era of spiritualism – with Sir Arthur Conan Doyle as a believer and Harry Houdini as a skeptic. As noble as each of their causes may have been, this divergence in perspectives ultimately led to the dissolution of their friendship.  Even if they were not Brothers, I would still find that tragic.

As I have observed online community engagement, I have seen free thought met with online trolling especially when anonymous posts were allowed.  Social media has lifted the veil of how opinionated we each are, and the efforts which we make to show that we are right.   I have also come to realize that with sufficient effort and focus, it is possible to present information in ways that support any case. As the saying goes, “There are lies, darned lies, and then there are statistics.”  … Perhaps we can now also add, “… and then there is AI”.

As I have gotten older, and collected more “facts”, I have found humility in what I truly know.   My implicit cognitive bias, and an existence of seeing the world as I am surfaces.  Looking back on scientific reports, I remember reading that coffee was good for me, then bad, then good again.  The same apparently holds true for eggs and perhaps there is a story here about moderation.  There was also a time when there was consensus that stars revolved around the Earth or that the Earth was flat.  All that said, the change in thought reflects growth.  In a healthy world, growth might serve as a catalyst for inspiration and hope.

Humans often feel the need to express their understanding of the world to demonstrate their knowledge or persuade others of certain ‘truths’ without understanding that common beliefs have been proven incorrect and challenged.  As we uncover more information, we realize how much we still do not know, and that is uncomfortable.  We lose sight that our understanding of history is based on accounts written by individuals with their own perspectives and biases – influenced by the context in which they lived.

All that said, you might be thinking, “so what”?   Am I suggesting that nothing is true? Can we not make any claims about our existence and experiences? Many would argue that this would result in chaos and madness, and to be honest, I agree. As our differing viewpoints become more apparent in our increasingly connected world, we are indeed experiencing chaos and madness, and unfortunately, we seem unable to reconcile our differences.

Practicing Masonry is the answer:  Reflecting on stories of patience, continual improvement, and respecting the diversity of thought and perspectives.  Practicing humility and giving our Brothers and Sisters the benefit of doubt – believing that everyone is doing their best in a complex world.  Expanding on that thought, imagine a world where we ask, “What If…?” rather than making assertions.   Imagine celebrating our ability to think freely. Celebrating our diversity of thought is valuable.  Our stories are valuable.  As my friend Chad said, “It is the good stuff.”  If you’d like to hear our conversation, please check out the Ohio Lodge of Research.    

In closing, remember, ours is a craft built on symbols and allegories.  Be honest about that.  I’m not telling you to be so open minded that your brain falls out.  Instead, I am asking you to engage your ears before your tongue, and when you speak: engage your heart.  Professional wrestling outcomes are staged.  The forget-me-not story is legend.  These statements might be true, but they might also be missing a greater point.  Be kind, and open to observe while leading through patience, practice, and learning until that day when your temple is complete.

Until then, travel well my Brothers. 

Fraternally,
Brad

In the hustle of life’s demands, it can be easy to rush through things to get to our end goals.  I’ve seen this idea manifest itself multiple times: wishing away the school year to get to summer, wanting to be a year older (at least until reaching our twenties and then the sentiment seems to reverse), or seeking advancement in a career until one day it hits you that your kiddos are growing up and going to college.  We often overlook important moments due to distractions, stress, and fleeting emergencies.   All this is not meant to reflect regret – it is a part of the natural order of things, and an observation that I hope helps at least one of my readers.

Reflecting on this, I also realize that the memories I hold most dear or the things that I am most proud of did not happen overnight.  The teachers I remember are the ones that pushed me and were tough.  The achievements that are most meaningful are the ones that took a lot of work and were not just handed to me.  My closest and most meaningful friendships have an investment of time, and a special spark that caused resonance between like-minded individuals.  I now understand that teachers were tough because they believed in me, that the pursuit is often more memorable than the reward, and relationships take time.

I’ve observed that rain and challenges faced on motorcycle trips can be memorable, reminding us that we are alive. Though not ideal at the time, these experiences often bring a smile when remembered. It’s interesting how small moments can grow into deeply meaningful memories. Many of my fond memories originate from lodge involvement.   Memories of drills from a dear friend taking the time to coach a set of rookies on Cycle Patrol parade routines, games of Munchkin and breakfasts after a session of studying for proficiency, watching NFL on the big screen with Brothers while enjoying biscuits and gravy or Sunday morning chili, taking a chance road trip to pick up a Harley with a new friend, and of laughing while painting and dressing up a lodge are just a few examples that fill my cup and make my heart swell with joy. 

When our candidates knock on our door, they each seek something within our walls.  As much as they yearn to understand what that is, a lodge makes a commitment to help them find it. Learning from my own experiences, there are some considerations I would ask each of us to consider.

First:  despite our desire to accelerate the natural order of things, we need to coach our candidates and new members to take their time.  It is important that they get to know their blue lodges and the people that are in it before becoming too concerned with appendant bodies or getting pulled into the management concerns of the progressive line.  Despite the demands and pressures that cause us to overlook this need, we rob our candidates and new members when we fall into the trap of overextending the new guys early in their Masonic journey.  What’s more, it might cause perception of a cheapened honor that the lodge bestows on that Brother when they decide to elevate him for a brief time as the lodges’ Worshipful Master.  This decision should not be taken lightly by any lodge.

Sadly, I have lost a lot of friends to burn-out based on these behaviors.  WB Reed and I had a nice discussion about these themes in Episode #59 of the MN Masonic Histories and Mysteries podcast.  Please check it out.

Second:  Expectations should be set immediately that joining a lodge takes work.  For whatever reason, I expected that I would be doing memory work as a candidate.  It was not even a question.  Perhaps rooted in family expectations or my time with the scouts, I was prepared for this.  I love my job as LEO because I understand the value of education – wherever it may come from.  Further, there is no greater reward than inspiration or the pride that comes with a job well done.   In my opinion, accessibility to the treasure of education is one of the differentiators of Freemasonry.

Expanding on that, it is true that we all have different abilities.  We should take time and reflect on the importance memory.  We should coach those who seek out our lodge the importance of thinking.  We are here to think.  We are here to learn.  Memory work is not only about “sharpening the saw”, it also the cornerstone to understanding a concept well enough to reflect on it.  We could all benefit from spending more time reflecting on the meaning of our stories and symbols.  Without this understanding, much of the lodges’ value is missed.  Our doors are closed until a candidate knocks – isn’t there good reason for this?  For lodges to be healthy, we should be mindful of who is truly prepared to receive our mysteries, wonders and gifts.

Third:  We should not align a new candidate with a random mentor.  Mentoring should not be solely about helping a candidate through memory work – it should be treated as a relationship.  As important as making sure a candidate finds the right lodge is the importance of making sure they find Brothers with common interests.  This resonance helps build the relationships and friendships many seek.  Without it, attending lodge can quickly become routine and mundane; forgetting about Brotherhood and focusing purely on the business. 

If you have been in the craft for a while, are you giving the gift of your time for more than business meetings?  Are you sharing who you truly are and what makes you special with your Brothers?  Money can always be re-earned, but time is one of the most precious gifts we can all give.

In summary, special things take investment and do not happen overnight.  Recently, I traveled 1600 miles in 3 days with a group of my trusted Minnesota Brothers.  I had enough experience to push myself, and enough solid relationships to know I’d be taken care of once we arrived.  While on our travels, we visited Masonic Island in North Dakota – an echo of the past, and investment of our future.  It reflects our ongoing works and mysteries.  If you have opportunity to visit, I recommend it.

What are we each doing to promote learning in our lodges?  Are we doing the type of work that will set our spirits free and give honor to our creator?  If so, then we are making deep meaning in others’ lives.  If not, please reflect on how that can be changed. 

As always, if I can be of help, please do not hesitate to call on me.  I would love to hear from you.  In the meantime, travel well my Brothers.

Fraternally,

Brad

Throughout its degrees, Masonry teaches an inside-out approach to self-improvement. Looking through the mirror, self-reflection is the point.  Evaluating the tools we are handed, and scrutinizing their application is the traveler’s path to spiritual growth.  The basic implements of leadership are subsequently represented in the teachings of our own working tools and in the lessons of our degrees.  We promised to apply them and continually work to improve ourselves.  This was of our own free will. 

As WB Reed asks, “Are we who we say we are?”

“To rule has been the lot of many and requires neither strength of intellect nor soundness of judgement; to rule well has been the fortune of few.”  This statement is not specifically about the Worshipful Master or any other management role, but how they decide to conduct themselves.  The best of us understand that leading is a choice to serve those around us.  Most typically, people follow leaders because they want to, and not because they must.  “be ever mindful, that though elevated for a time above his fellows, he is elevated by them.”

I sometimes wonder if we lose sight of that in our world of self-centeredness and distractions so obviously reflected by social media and its emojis, likes and dings.  It is easy to get comfortable, or to defer to someone else, but cabletows are about ability – not convenience.  Without our willingness to show up, we lose credibility.

I failed to call a Brother I care about when it most counted.  I regret it deeply, and I now recognize that I was distracted by much less important noise.  I am human and it was a learning experience.  It was not my first mistake, and I seriously doubt it will be my last.  I will do everything I can to avoid making that mistake again.  Humility is the path to wisdom.

To practice Masonry requires commitment and service.  We each gave our word to appropriately represent it while bringing light to the world.  We knocked at the door and were freely given the opportunity to become Masons; we were given the tools to look after widows, orphans, friends and Brothers.  We were given the opportunity to lead.

Once we ground ourselves in this truth and its extreme responsibility, we become ready to interface with the rest of the world – supported by a great foundation and network of our Brothers.  Providing strength and support to society is needed now more than any other time I’ve seen in my lifetime.

To this end, the Grand Lodge of Minnesota has been meeting with leadership programs at the University of Minnesota.  You may have met Kathy Quick at one of our gatherings or heard her on the recent Minnesota Masonic Histories and Mysteries podcast.  She is a kind and gentle person who cares deeply about the communities around us.  As I listened to her discussion with Reed, I was taken by her appreciation for silence and circumspection; leadership qualities that certainly resonate with me.  She was vulnerable and exhibited her deep appreciation for service to her fellow human beings, and a strong desire to build meaningful connections.  I am excited to see what opportunities the future may hold for us to collaborate with her, and other like-minded individuals – however that may materialize.

In closing, as a dear friend pointed out to me:  nobody can make leaders.  To lead is a choice. Masonry provides the tools for a man to make that choice and find success if he so chooses.  Keeping that gift to ourselves is to ignore some of the most important characteristics of our tools, ceremonies, and lectures.  I hope that resonates.

I look forward to crossing paths with you soon my Brothers.   Until then, travel well.

Fraternally, 
Brad

Dear Woz,

Earlier this week, during a team meeting, my colleagues were reminiscing about the Apple II and playing Oregon Trail in school. It brought back fond memories, and I remembered that I had recently inherited an Apple II in a trade with one of my Masonic Brothers. Curious if it would still boot, I headed into my lab and powered it on. Sure enough, it sprang to life—a testament, in my opinion, to the quality of its engineering. I smiled when I noticed it was a Woz Limited Edition, which once again made me think of you.

Like many others, the Apple II was the first computer I ever encountered. I learned to type on it and discovered the spark of endless opportunity and wonder while programming on it. You and Steve Jobs had the vision to recognize the value computers could bring into our homes when others did not.

I once read online that you said, “In the end, I hope there’s a little note somewhere that says I designed a good computer.” I’m not sure if those were truly your words, but they wouldn’t have made their way to the internet without your influence.  Similarly, I don’t know if you’ll ever come across this note—but it’s destined for the web, and I sincerely hope you do. I wouldn’t be where I am today if it was not for you.

While enjoying a trip down memory lane on my newly acquired Apple II, I decided to recreate the first program I ever entered into a computer:

10 PRINT “HELLO BRAD.”
20 GOTO 10

The program is a bit basic (see what I did there), but it reminds me how far we’ve come over the past 40 years. From various articles I’ve read about you, I know you place great value on both education and humor. I only wish I’d had the chance to call your dial-a-joke line.

As I was reliving these childhood moments, I remembered reading that you were a Freemason. A quick search confirmed it: according to the Grand Lodge of British Columbia, you were initiated in 1980 at Charity Lodge No. 362 in Campbell, CA.[i]  The Washington National Memorial site also mentions you as a Mason in the Grand Lodge of California.[ii]

In an interview on one of my favorite tech sites, Slashdot.org, you explained that you joined to spend more time with your then-wife, Alice Robertson, who was in the OES. You shared, “I did become a Freemason and know what it’s about, but it doesn’t really fit my tech/geek personality. Still, I can be polite to others from other walks of life. After our divorce was filed, I never attended again, but I did contribute enough for a lifetime membership.”[iii]

While I know many Brothers may be saddened to learn that you are no longer active in the fraternity, I am reminded of the words of one of my closest Masonic friends: “The true works of Masonry are done outside of the doors of the lodge.”

You have dedicated your life to exploration, education, and helping those in need. While I’ve come to know of your contributions during my 30 years in the industry, anyone can simply scroll through the Honors and Awards section of your Wikipedia page to get a glimpse of your incredible impact.  … Impacts that I think are in alignment with the values of our fraternity.[iv]  Impacts that I try to emulate when mentoring people new to technology, and new to our gentle craft.  We all have something to learn from each other.

You seem to have been often overshadowed by Steve Jobs—someone that I understand wasn’t always easy to get along with. Despite this, you stood by his side and chose to see the best in him. I find that truly honorable.

In the end, I just want to thank you for kickstarting my career and igniting my passion for learning. You opened a new world to me—one that enabled me to follow a path where I could communicate with people all around the globe, even when I couldn’t afford to travel and meet them in person.  You also helped me discover the fraternity that I hold so dear.

And I wanted to tell you that… 

You designed a good computer.

Fraternally,
Brad

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[i] Steve Wozniak.  Grand Lodge of British Columbia.

[ii] Grand Lodge of California – GWMNMA, The George Washington Masonic National Memorial.  Feb 01, 2018.

[iii] “Ask Steve Wozniak Anything”. Slashdot. October 1, 2012. Archived from the original on October 25, 2018. Retrieved October 25, 2018.

[iv] Steve Wozniak – Wikipedia

(April 2025)
The annual communication took place last weekend in Waite Park, offering a valuable opportunity to step back and reconnect with Brothers from across the state. This occasion is bittersweet as it signifies the conclusion of a Masonic year and the transition of our Grand Lodge officers. MWB Foster will be fondly remembered for his heartfelt remarks, meticulous attention to the details of our ritual, and his warm hugs. As we move forward, I hope that the spirit of camaraderie he fostered will continue into the coming year, even if informally the year of the hug continues …  I would also be remiss if I didn’t mention that I was absolutely blown away by WB David Graham’s oration.  While a rose by any other name may smell as sweet, I have no other words except this oration was amazing.  If you didn’t hear it, put simply: you missed out. 

It was a pleasure to see so many of you, particularly during the LEO breakout session. We explored the fundamentals of lodge education together.  We discussed what constitutes an effective LEO, approaches to lodge education, and the potential enhancements AI could bring to our LEO approaches and studies. Notable discussions included exploring the differences between teachers, coaches, and mentors, along with strategies we make use of for each. Several individuals have approached me to further expand on our conversation.  I greatly appreciate this as it allows for deeper thought and clearer definitions.  I believe it also means that the topic resonated with Brothers, and it reinforces my viewpoint that perhaps it is more important to know how to think than it is to coach our Brothers on what to think.

We also spent time discussing where we get information – books, blogs, podcasts, YouTube, Brothers, societies etc.  I’ll try to get these items assembled and posted to the cheat sheet on bythecompass.org.  We also had a sign-up sheet that included capturing Brothers who are interested in giving LEO presentations – I’ll work with RWB Keith to get that list added to our Google drive (accessible from Grandview under resources).

The conversations about mentoring and friendship were heartwarming and inspiring.  I am glad to hear that we are each taking time to get to know each other and supporting our shared interests.  This is especially important in this world, that is reinforcing remote work, isolation, and potential for loneliness.  Freemasonry holds keys to knowledge and awareness through self-reflection and interactions that seem more relevant and important today than perhaps it was in days past.    

As expected, our AI discussion was polarizing. I appreciated the safe environment for sharing diverse opinions. I demonstrated how to gather information from various sources, ask thoughtful questions through a chatbot interface, and create AI podcasts with AI-generated voices. This was startling for many as I expected it would be. Discussing technology and its implications is crucial for us to thoughtfully and ethically use it. We covered plagiarism, the importance of humanity, and what it means to have unique thought.  These aspects made the conversation engaging and insightful.  Our hour flew by quickly.

If anyone reading this is interested, an example of one of these podcasts was shared in my latest Ashlar article and can be found here:  Reflections on Honey.  During our discussions, I briefly mentioned a book that I thoroughly enjoyed called “Scary Smart” by Mo Gawdat (previous Chief Business Officer of Google X).  It is because of this book that I regularly use ‘please’ and ‘thank you’ when interacting with AI.

In the end, I asked the room to think about why we as humans would have created AI and continue to do so – even knowing the perils that it presents.  In the few minutes we had to discuss, making our lives easier and the emulation of our creator came up as topics.  I would love to solicit essays/write-ups to further reflect on this question, “Why did we create AI and continue to enhance it knowing the potential dangers it presents us.”  Please submit your contributions to masonicconundrum@gmail.com.  If I publish your submission, I have a pin for you.

Until then, travel well my Brothers.

Fraternally,
Brad